05-06-2020, 07:45 AM
Her written instruction from way back when she was still lucid, just after my father died, was for no service, family only to put the urn in the niche next to my dad at her old church. We're doing that on the 16th. Right now she's sitting on the table at our house; we made a little shrine. I'm working on closing up all her accounts and have pretty much everything in order. Since the house was already sold it's pretty simple. I did get an eBook from Nolo press about handling a trust since I spoke with her lawyer and as the trustee I'm legally required to give written notice about the trust to the beneficiaries (just my brother and me), and I wasn't really clear on it, and was afraid there might be something else I needed to do. Luckily the trust lets us skip probate, which would be a shit show since the courts are closed.
the hands that guide me are invisible