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My Family
Ah, more laziness. I stayed up late to help my father to bed but he and my mother opted to stay up even later so they could watch the end of the Notebook.

I set my alarm for 5:30 so I wouldn't sleep the whole day away. I peaked in my parent's bedroom to see if they were asleep.

The day before, I cleared the path around the bed so my father and his walker would have a clear shot to the bathroom.

He had his walker. He had a plan what could go wrong?

I heard the crash around 5:45 from my parents bedroom. Not a big crash like yesterday's dresser clearing crash, but something fell up there. I went up the stairs and found my father sitting on the end of the bed. His walker had hooked the cord for the clock radio and dragged it from the dresser. The cord was still wrapped around the wheel of his walker. I untangled it and put the walker in front of my father.

Except. Except. Except.

My father is really weak and a little disoriented at 5 in the am. His only thought is go to bathroom. As he was sitting on the edge of the bed, he started to slip to the floor, his legs unable to support him. I grabbed him around the chest to force him back on the bed. He would hold for a second, but then start to slip again. I grabbed him again and tried to drive him back on the bed. He yelped in pain from the force against his arms.

Gravity won as gravity always seems to do. He was back on the ground at the foot of the bed, falling in and out of sleep. I tried to find something to help me get him back on his feet, but I couldn't come up with anything. My father is pushing 280 at the moment and I can't dead lift that.

My mother pushed the panic button and the EMTs were on there way. Again. Next time I need to put a pot of coffee on for the boys and girls when she pushes that button.

It was a slightly different crew from yesterday, but still the same lead. I helped out by clearing the hallway and making sure the stair lift was down a level.

There was some miscommunication with the Emergency services and the Paramedics joined us as well. We had five emergency personnel in the bedroom with my parents at one point. His vitals were okay. he experienced some acute pain when they lifted him in his shoulder area.

As soon as he was back in bed, he went right to sleep. I wished my EMT and Paramedic friends a good day and off they went.

The score for the weekend Gravity 2 Dad 0
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And there is no convincing them to move to a home, eh?
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Or hiring live-in help? At this point, your ambulence bills must be staggering.
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First off, no one wants to go to a home. And I for one don't want to go to a home. You might not know this, but Lynchs tend to be stubborn. Shocker, I know.

That being said, my sisters and I are trying to get them full time care here in their home. Up to this point, there has been a vocal voice of resistance to somebody coming into her home and touching her things. They've had a part-time person, but obviously at this point, that is not enough. 

My mother has finally come round to the need for a lot more care after the events of the last several weeks. They made some strides to hiring that person yesterday. Stephanie has also been burning up the phone wires.

Stay tuned for to this space
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Cautiously optimistic, as we head into the 6 o'clock hour, that I won't have to call the EMTs this morning. That's a win, right?
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Woohoo! The Lynch family has gone 24 hours without a call to the EMTs.

Still going to the urologist later with my father so it's not a total win.
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take it as a win.  

got to grab those wins when times are tough.
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Nope. I stand corrected. Dammit.
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Woo-hoo! Having money discussions with my mother today.
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It's good to work these things out.
I'm sure it'll go just fine.
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Oh, CF, the things you don't know about my family dynamic......
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I do know that at some point in the distant past some funds were allocated to you but then got borrowed away, followed by denials of any such thing, and that the entity at the center of that little fiasco is now presenting itself, front and center.

I suspect that at least sets the tone for the family dynamics ahead.
Hoping that somehow it isn't too stressful, on top of all else.
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Strong like bull.
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I tried really hard to be good to my mother all day, including taking my mother to an eye appointment at Kaiser.

It crumbled around 7 when I had to answer yet another question about her cel phone and how to answer emails.
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I hear root beer is good to cleanse eyes. Or was it milk?
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