03-09-2018, 05:09 PM
My mother lives in assisted living. I got a call from them telling me that I needed to get a 24 hour attendant for her because she needed more management. The assisted living people were demanding that i hire assistance. It turns out that their assistance is just food, laundry and cleaning. So now I have to move her somewhere else. And in the meantime I have to have someone in there 24 hours a day at $25 an hour. Thank God she had the house in Cupertino, or there would be no money for this. And luckily her mind is slipping, so she just kind of goes with whatever is going on. On the other hand, for me it's pretty stressful.
the hands that guide me are invisible